September 22, 2016
WHY ARE WE SO AFRAID?
Why are we so afraid? – Simple – we are more comfortable
with the known rather than the unknown. The unknown disturbs our comfort level,
reveals emotions that we never acknowledge exist within us. It opens our eyes
to see, feel and experience the other side of us. After all, everything around
us is only a mirror of our creation.
Because of fear we fail to experience life to the fullest. We
failed to have a healthy exchange of ideas and viewpoint with our
neighbors. We become afraid of crossing the street, interacting with strangers,
(who by the way are not really strangers) going to another country, try a
different type of food, etc. We seldom explore
our neighborhood. We become fearful of expressing and experiencing our
true self, that masterpiece of love, compassion, forgiveness and healing that
our Creator has made in His own image and likeness.
Our fear denies us the ability to ask and receive the
abundance the universe has to offer. And
because we are stymied within our fearful self we never ask and, even when we
ask, we doubt we will receive. We are afraid that there will never be enough of
anything when the truth is, there is no lack.
On the one hand, the more fearful we become it frequently manifest
itself in the form of hatred of self and others, bigotry, and racism. On the
other hand, fear traumatized us to remain silent to the injustice that is
taking place around us. By shifting our thought process (creative) we can
clean up this toxic, fearful environment.
Can we truthfully say that at any given time in our journey
we have taken the time to look into the eyes of the person next to us and ask that
person how you are doing and take the next step and ask about their family? Not so long ago, it was normal to greet
everyone you meet on the street. As I child, I remembered that if I pass a
neighbor on the street and did not acknowledge them, I would be reported to my
parents and suffered the humiliation of being marched to their house to ask for
their pardon and promised never to do it again. We no longer acknowledge each other because we
live in fear and no longer see our inherent goodness. When we allow fear to be
our guide instead of unconditional love, we traumatize ourselves. We boxed ourselves
into little niches and we deprived ourselves the full measure of our being
As President Disaku Ikeda of the Soka Gakkai International
Nichiren Buddism, once said: “Faith
is to fear nothing, to stand
unswayed, the power to surmount any obstacle.” We can overcome this
distraction (it is only that) by affirming faith, truth and honesty in our
everyday life. We can banish
the crippling fear that is destroying our daily lives and make love, light and
compassion the norm rather than the exception. We can look fear in the eye each
day and affirm to ourselves: “I fear you not, you no longer have the power over
me, I am free from your drama and I am fully expressing my true self of love,
joy, and laughter with compassion to myself and humanity.”
Let us embrace life to the fullest. Give light
and love wherever we go illuminating the people and space we encounter.
We can banish fear from our circle - acknowledge and greet each other, sow
seeds of love and give light to everyone. This loving exchange of energy broadens
our horizon. It allows the inevitable shift in our consciousness and ferment a
better environment without fear. What a revelation! What a revolutionary idea!